I’ve learned to understand that

It’s been different, from home base and new base in the NW. People in the NW are more closed off. Moving here 10 years ago, I have adapted and have brought myself to be somewhat of a closed off person until the first exchange. I used to hug and be more approachable but when I moved here, I found that being super happy or saying hi and hugging was weird. I now know how to assess the exchange and feel out the energy beforehand, sad right? Not really. It’s just the nature of different regions and cultures. They are all different. I’ve learned to understand that and not be mad about it. It will change any time you are in a different place.

I myself am a strong Hispanic woman. I am also tattooed and exude a strong, intimidating energy because of my already preconceived shield. So, I feel that some people may be unsure about me when first approached. When I talk to people that view changes. I get a feel for what it is and nine out of ten times it’s cool. We end up exchanging words and the days experience. It’s funny because the energy starts off as unsure and it flips in a split second once we know we are both humans just trying to be happy.

Everything in life at this moment is tense for everyone in some sense. I feel like that can radiate from me in some way. Once the “hello” is completed and there is a mutual respect for each other, my true character is revealed. I’m one for all, and a human that is going to root for any kickass human being.